Date people who've actually been vetted.
SMITN verifies every member with a criminal record check and a real LinkedIn identity before they ever reach your feed. Then Hitch, your private AI dating coach, helps you turn good matches into something real. Built first for the safety of women.
Safety isn't a setting. It's the whole foundation.
Most dating apps optimize for volume. SMITN optimizes for trust. Every person you see has cleared a background check, signed in with a verified professional identity, and agreed to a community where ghosting and bad behaviour carry real consequences.
We built it for women first — the people who carry the most risk on a first date — and for the high-quality professionals who'd rather meet fewer, better people than swipe through thousands of strangers. When everyone is verified, everyone can relax a little.
Membership is earned, then verified.
Joining SMITN is a deliberate, three-part process. It's why your matches can trust you — and why you can trust them.
Sign in with LinkedIn
No throwaway emails or recycled Instagram handles. SMITN uses LinkedIn single sign-on, so every member arrives with a real, professional identity behind their profile.
Complete your safety check
A one-time $149 setup includes a criminal record check. Your record is never shared or shown — it simply unlocks your green Safety check when you meet our standards.
Add optional checks
Want to stand out further? Complete the optional financial questionnaire for a blue check. Every verification you add makes you more visible across the app.
Two badges. One simple promise.
The Safety check
Confirms a member has never been charged with a violent, sexual, fraud, or identity-theft offence. The record itself stays private — only the verified result is ever shown.
The Financial check
An optional questionnaire that confirms financial stability — no recent bankruptcy, for instance. Private by design, and a quiet signal of reliability for those who choose it.
Meet Hitch.
Hitch is the coach in your corner — a premium AI companion that learns how you date and helps you do it better. Give it permission, and it works alongside your real conversations and reflections.
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Reads the room, with your permission
On premium, Hitch can review the messages you're already exchanging and suggest ways to keep a good thing going.
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Debriefs every date
How did it go? Green flags, red flags, how you felt walking out — a short reflection that helps Hitch understand your patterns.
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Recommends only vetted resources
Struggling with small talk? Hitch points you to published books, podcasts, and experts — never made-up advice.
A community that keeps dating kind.
SMITN closes the gaps where dating usually goes wrong — the ghosting, the disappearing acts, the people who behave badly without consequence.
Closure, not silence.
Go quiet after a match, leave a chat untouched too long, or choose to unmatch — and a feedback loop opens. You pick from honest, guardrailed options or write your own, and your match can respond in kind.
Once both sides share, the thread closes for good. No lingering, no reopening — just a clean, respectful goodbye.
Patterns the whole community can see.
After a date, you're privately asked whether anything made you uncomfortable — and how. It's never shown to the other person. But repeated, serious concerns don't go unnoticed.
Meet somewhere that has your back.
SMITN partners with cafés, bars, and restaurants that complete our safety training — so a first date happens somewhere prepared to help.
- Staff trained to recognize a discreet safe word and step in
- Clear policies for helping a member get home safely
- Certified, listed in-app, and given window decals to display
Worth doing properly.
SMITN is built for people who'd rather invest in dating well than swipe for free. One setup, one membership, one community that stays committed.
- Criminal record check included
- Green Safety check on your profile
- LinkedIn identity verification
- Optional financial check available
- Hitch, your AI dating coach
- Message insights & date debriefs
- Priority visibility from your check marks
- Safe-venue directory & community tools
Membership that means something
Cancel whenever you like — but SMITN isn't a revolving door. Re-joining means a 3–6 month wait and completing the full setup and verification again. It keeps the community made of people who are genuinely here.
Reach people, right when it matters.
Be the obvious choice
Restaurants, activities, and experiences can reach members at the precise moment they're deciding where a first date should happen.
Sponsor the experience
Brands aligned with safety, wellness, and connection can support SMITN events and features that bring the community together.
Join the safe-date network
Get trained, get listed, and welcome members who already know your venue is a place that takes their safety seriously.
Be smitten — safely.
Request your invite and we'll walk you through verification. The community grows slowly, and on purpose.